"Birds do, bees do it, even ignorant Yankeeeees do it...."
I love Dakota Voice, just when you think they've dredged into the deepest, darkest trenches of Conservative idiocy, they come with something new - this time it's Glenn Stanton. It's quite a short post, so you can see the video and Bob Ellis' comments here.
Stanton has been invited onto the Dr Phil show to discuss "Gender confusion" which Ellis has confused with homosexuality in his tags. Homosexual folks aren't confused about their gender - that's transsexuals you dolt! Homosexuals are attracted to people of the same gender.
Says Ellis:
"Due to a variety of environmental factors, children can become confused about their sexuality, what their proper role is and how they should act."Which is bullshit, of course. Since Ellis is a God-fearing throwback, he cannot accept that. Even Stanton has this to say about gender dysphoria in children (the full article is here).
"Is it normal and healthy for young children to participate in cross-sex behavior? Of course! The whole world of a child is exploration. The role of the parent is to make sure their children explore and learn about their world in safe and directed ways."Which is fair enough, but regrettably Stanton doesn't really understand what he's actually burbling about so this advice is misguided and wrong. The behaviour he alludes to is perfectly normal in normal children. His religiously formed guidance won't work in a truly dysphoric person. Our own NHS has this to say:
"The symptoms of gender dysphoria usually appear at a very young age. Children may refuse to wear typical boys' or girls' clothes, or dislike taking part in typical boys' or girls' games and activities. In most cases, this kind of behaviour is just a normal part of growing up, but in cases of gender dysphoria, it persists into later childhood, adolescence and adulthood."The exact cause of gender dysphoria is unknown. It is currently classed as a psychiatric condition (relating to the mind), but many recent studies have suggested that it is more to do with biological development (relating to the body). There is ongoing research into what causes it."
Key here is the observation that a person with true dysphoria will refuse to wear clothes "appropriate" to their gender even at young age. (I did myself as a very young child. Children often dress up in alternative outfits - from the opposite sex to their favourite superhero - yet when they do, we don't assume they will grow up and go around dressed as Batman.)
Normal children just grow out of it! Biology and sexual identity will take over. Parental guidance (as promoted by Stanton) is a good thing; but our parents can't really influence our ultimate sexual identity: any more than zombie-worshipping plonkers can make God appear out of thin air.Stanton says, Dr. Kennth Zucker:
"...one of the world's leading authorities on gender confusion in children, calls this dynamic "family noise" which he explains as unhealthy relationships between mother and father, parents and child, as well as sibling to sibling. He says allowing a boy to live as a girl might solve the immediate anxiety of such a child, but it would ignore the larger problem driving such desire, and it fails to serve the child and the family."Does he indeed? Actually, we're not told what, precisely Dr. Zucker said that Stanton hasn't manipulated into his own words and since there is no real citation, there is no way to check, but googling does reveal why Zucker was chosen. TSRoadmap.com (who represent the opposing case) describes him thus:
"Ken Zucker is a psychologist at the Clarke Institute (aka "Jurassic Clarke") in Toronto. Zucker is famous for forcing gender-variant children into reparative therapy to conform to his expectations for male and female behavior in children. He considers transsexual women a 'bad outcome' for gay men."Zucker is a darling of the 'ex-gay' movement because of his work 'curing' gender-variant children. "Now I won't go as far as alluding to Zucker as a quack, but shit, I'm sure I can hear ducks around here somewhere. Now, I think I'll go and pop some sheer stockings on. Oooo that feels soooo gooooood.
Thanks for the post. You can learn more about Zucker's reparative therapy techniques on trans children in this NPR report:
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And transsexual people aren't confused about their gender identities. They generally have a very clear sense that it's not the one they were assigned at birth.
What are people saying about God, here? That he puts people in the wrong bodies so that they can be tortured and believe that God made a mistake. God does not make mistakes, and He does not put people in the wrong bodies-even if we are only talking about <1% of the population. This teaching that some people are trapped in the wrong body is a lie. The devil may give people desires to be the opposite sex so that they can ultimately destroy themselves. Some people who are "transexuals" go on to have body parts taken off or added on, and destroy bodies. This is not a burden that God puts on a few "unfortunate people." There are all kinds of desires that people struggle with, but it does not mean that you give into them. It says in the bible that men wearing women's clothes and visa versa is an abomination. So, why would God make someone a transexual? Makes no sense. ALso, parents have a personal responsibility to their children-to help them and protect them. If a child is struggling with his or her identity, you shouldn't feed into it by making it worse. You try to encourage them to explore the things about their own sex that interest them and teach them to have pride in their physical bodies and who God made them to be. Same with an alcoholic, do you continue to supply them with alcohol since they have a drinking problem? No, you try to remove the alcohol from the house, and help them in any way that you can. Transexuality is destructive. It hurts the body, soul and spirit. If parents love their children, they just have to say "no" to behavior that is destructive. It is hard to do this, but in the end, you will be happy you do. In saying no, try to encourage them to embrace the things about their gender that they like and spend time with them. IT is particularly important for fathers to be invested in son's life and take them out to do father-son things. Same with mother and daughter relationships. People don't like the truth, but the truth is the truth even if you are a majority of one.
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